Whoever found himself floats some time in the seventh heaven. But love needs several pillars in order not to cool down, to become purely platonic or a community of purposes. A pillar for a good partnership is good sex. What belongs to this, and how it can be practiced, this is the topic in this chapter of the online book Ethify Yourself.

People are also sexual beings. They live their sexuality differently, celebrate them, consider them the most important incident in the world or simply suppress or ignore them. The latter sometimes provokes replacements: greed for power, prestige thinking, consumption noise or resignation. Anyone who is allowed to experience touch, stroke, excitement, pleasure and orgasms will be more satisfied in life. There are many ways and variations, with and without partners.

As we experience our sexuality has a lot to do with how we perceive our body as well as the partner. Shame and fear, but also courage and openness play a great role. Is there anyone I can talk to? How do I experience intimacy? Do I really know my body? An environment with friends or girlfriends or parents or teachers, who have an open ear, facilitates the confrontation with it. There is also professional support for sexual advisers.

What does fulfilling sexuality have to do with ethics? If it was according to the moral concepts of Christian religions, the sexual drive was exclusively used for reproduction. Therefore, the prevention is not appropriate, it impedes a divine envoy and undergrabe - by the way - the so practical gender hierarchy (in addition Yoko Ono/John Lennon "Woman is the Nigger of the World"). For the difference in power between the sexes could only be achieved by the captivity of one by unbraked fertility and offspring. A lot of misery has been created with the preservative of the prevention - even of the so practical preservative (which is depleted by ecclesiastical officials as "partial sterilization". Why not set up a rule that men should wash the acorn before and after use with retracted foreskin? To this day, untimely practices are being promoted, where men have no opportunity or are ignorant or too proud to cleanse their penis regularly, and so lightly transmit diseases (such as viruses that cervical cancer trigger). A condom therefore offers multiple protection and is the first choice contraceptive without side effects. If men do not want to splash in the rubber, this part of the file can be done differently. It is important to use timely, because sperms are sometimes also included in the man's pleasure drops (which, with appropriate stimulation, provides the prostate as a lubricant). Hormone preparations such as the pill have side effects, not only in women, but also in fish and frogs, because the estrogen in the urine enters the water cycle.

The 68s detabuised sex in the western world. While Joan Baez with the Bob Dylan song "Love is just a Four-Letter-Word" and Janis Joplin with "Piece of my Heart" still entertained the love and the broken heart, not only the music in the 70s became more and more direct when it was about one thing. In his album "Jazz from Hell" released in 1986, Frank Zappa sings the G-Spot and Mirja Boes alias Möhre 2001 the 20 centimeters.

To consume pornographic material is easier today than ever. But YouPorn and the back shelf in the kiosk do not reveal how good sex works. Also Dr. Sommer remains in the Bravo issue with the question of tampon size (unbluntly sponsored by o.b.). The Doku series "Make Love" of the SWR, in which Ann-Marlene Henning speaks about sexuality as a sexologist with couples, experts, passers-by and the cameraman, makes very concrete suggestions and provides real education. In Article 3 for example, the clitoris, which is three times as sensitive with 8000 nerve ends as the acorn tip and not only a bead, but is a 10 centimeter long organ that divides at the back and is connected with all the sensitive parts of the female sex organ. Women ejaculate prostate gland, the G-spot, which is more terrain than point. But while the penis is simply there and visible, it is necessary to discover the built-in organs of women's desire to explore. Mirrors and sense of touch enable women as well as their partners to discover the whole organ.

The way around and on good sexual experiences is to know and explore your own body. No matter what character you have or woman, each body is sensitive and excitable. Buben play with their limb and girl with their clitoris (and have only a bad conscience when it is forbidden). From first experiences of sensuality and pleasure, processes are practiced that lead to excitement and later to orgasm. The female scientist Shere Hits in her reports, by the way, encouraged that women masturbate much more often than was commonly accepted. On the other hand, far-wich's competitions are likely to occur more often in narratives than in real life. With Gooning a new culture has evolved in the 2010s, namely to delay the desire as long as possible. If I only take a break on "one" and just before orgasm, it comes into a trance condition that lets you take off.

Ann-Marianne Henning is always amazed at how many half truths and ignorance are present in her therapy talks. The following video covers some of them, such as after hairstyle in the genital area, which as well as head hairstyle is subject to fashionable trends.

In order for sexuality to succeed and remain interesting in the partnership, it not only needs the appropriate moments that can be staged with a light menu and candle light. What do you want? What do I wish? What do I like? What do I not like to try (yet)? Why? You may not have to talk about it in the first weeks of being in love, as long as it is handled carefully. To live up sexual desire requires consensus among the parties. And it can only be reached to a limited extent via body language, it is appropriate to talk about it and make a plan on how to try something new. If there is anal sex in every second porn video, this doesn't mean that everyone wants to. Intimacy does not mean that individual privacy is completely eliminated. If the parties want it all is allowed, but an exceeding of defined limits can lead to mental and physical injuries, and this is punishable.

There are countless options to prepare yourself and the partner or the partner for pleasure. And it doesn't always have to be the practiced process. Spontan can be quite exquisite. Or in nature, on a tree, on a rock or brook. Anyone who has a blanket in the backpack can collect unforgettable experiences alone or with partners in lonely places. Others like it in the shower, in the hay stadium, in the office, with or without spectators or several. There are relevant platforms such as GooNMeetwhere you can meet in digital spaces for joint onaging.

Once tools like dildos or fetters come into play, it becomes clear that unconditional trust is necessary. Trust is the basis of a persistent, good sexual relationship - even if the "Wagnis" can generate excitement. Not only in the BDSM Scene is "Consensual Sex" a rule: so before talking about what you or woman imagines and desires. It is advisable to make a code word like "Mayday" if it becomes too unpleasant or too dangerous for a partner.

The mutual penetration and the type of prevention must be discussed in advance. There is no safe contraception, the condom still cuts off best. The penetration is just one of many ways to have sex. Many variations are also possible with hands and oral. A dayd Lord has said this in an insurmountable manner during the visit of the Heurigen: "For as long as a man has a tongue and ten fingers, he is not impotent."

If pregnancy is not planned, it happens, however, to make decisions that can lead to ethical dilemmas. For a child changes the life of his parents, at least that of the mother. The Catholic Church and other religious institutions speak a "right to life" to a fertilized egg (consistently without taking care of the rights of pregnant women). In accordance with the applicable law, however, only a born person can be. As a compromise, the legislator has Time-limit resolution After the end of the 12th week of pregnancy, an abortion is free of punishment. If a condom bursts, which is very rare, the Pille after an option, even if the hormones can make the woman quite messy.

Today it is no longer taboo to spend beautiful hours with a person of the same sex. A commitment to hetero, gay or lesbian should not be necessary, because often the boundaries and preferences are flowing or changing. Sometimes something else can help with self-discovery, but it doesn't always have to stay that way. Unfortunately, homosexuals in the least countries have the same rights as heteros. In a half dozen countries it is even forbidden at death to confess openly gay or lesbian.

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Often speaking, instead of homosexuals, is spoken by the LGBT* community, because the term homosexual does not include all who experience suppression in our society. Lesbians, gays, bisexuals and transgenders are addressed together. The star, in turn, stands for those who do not feel belonging to any of the gennant groups.

Especially as a younger, it is difficult to find one's own place in society and a good access to one's sexuality. It is not surprising how many people feel uncomfortable in their own body or are insecure how to deal with their sexuality when the society in which we grow up always conveys that hetero is the norm. It is important to always have a person with whom good and open can be spoken - whether this is now the aunt, the best friend or a psychotherapist.

Anyone who is in a relationship and dares a side jump must count on chalices, because jealousy can be unpredictable, even if the partner or the partner thinks to agree. With a new partner, love can also turn, and who is freshly in love will be able to hide it hard. If a refreshment seems necessary, this should be planned together, a variant can also be to bring in a change together.

If a partner is tired or has no desire, the other person may also put on hand. This may also happen in the same room or bed, including lustful and voyeurism. Also, not every sexual act has to lead to orgasm, maybe a massage, lovcoses or petting better at the moment. After an orgasm, muscles are well relaxed, and so sex is also a probate sleeping agent, but it can also be stimulating. Without climax, erotic dreams are probable, which then might want to be quite experienced during the day. If the cause of a loss of pleasure is stress or overload, then it is important to schedule breakouts, exercise and possibly also sex fix. How and when sex works well and whether it should be made, couples have to find out themselves. (In the Danish Polit series "Borges" Sex with the Prime Minister is planned for Tuesday and Saturday, but this doesn't work as well at the time." Those who do not experience his body regularly live out soon. And there man or woman can easily become intolerable or even a monster.

Sexual contacts in Austria are about from the 14th. Year of life allowed and people have sex up to high age. There may be periods of life where the need for sexual experience comes into the background, in case of illness, stress, sadness or after a birth. A baby sleeps best out of the parental sleeping area and also toddlers should only come to cuddle in the morning, otherwise little intimacy remains. Since hardly one woman has an ovulation during the breastfeeding period, couples can use this time (and of course also the time of pregnancy) to have (safe!) sex again.

Anyone who consumes or uses pornographic material should ensure that this has been produced under fair conditions. Here an example of a rather "classical" sequence of a couple, where actors and producers are also called (not youth-free). Another variant of the sex film is to film yourself. Although the illumination is rarely perfect, the erotic kick is at least as good. One thing, however, is certain: whoever lands on the net as a porn actor, he or she will no longer get rid of this call. Because the Internet never forgets. And if so, then at least for a good purpose: FuckForest is a bizarre film in which even filmed porn is sold and whose proceeds are to go to environmental NGOs. Because in most porn the actresses (bad) are paid, there are erotic dramaturges with consensus rather rarely to see. A good relationship needs an exchange on the same eyes - or should we say - genital height? There are different roles to be played, but all parties must agree without pressure and dependencies. An example of this is xConfessions, an online platform for feminist porn. In a forum, users can tell about their sexual fantasies or erotic events. Erika Lust, the director behind xConfessions then chooses two stories each month to turn porn out. Here are women and men on the same eye and genital height: dirty sex is allowed, However, the values must remain clean.

Enlightenment videos are available, here is a pretty good made from Britain (in English).

The Museum of Prevention and Pregnancy offers videos on the Internet, documents shocking fates, for example, from midwives who had to answer an abortion or information about Vasectomy and where seeds can be stored when man decides to cut and yet wants to create a reserve in the case of cases. The museum can also be visited in Vienna.